Hello
my name is Nikos ( Nick )
born 6/19/71 and i live in Greece ( Thessaloniki )

If you are reading this i guess i have addressed you here from some spot in the vast global cyberspace as you propably have expressed some degree of curiosity to know a few things about my case by clicking on some relative link. If the spot from where you have been directed here isnt propably more or less related to a matching interest then i realy apologize for draging you here to read that by this i am actualy looking to meet women with who i possibly share a relationship potential : )

I guess this kind of usage of the internet is turning much to a very wide spread trend lately ( a weird one indeed i could also say but with strong statistic points if one would see it in a strict rational fashion : ) So you can just leave now or you can give a shot to find out about a possible communicational and friendship potential by skipping the soulmate quest part (because honestly in the heart this is what is wanted the most here) and head on straight to just simply communicate.

Its past midnight right now here, i am sitting in front of my pc with a cup of milk and a piece of home made cake listening to Van Morrison. I am driven by a stroke of sense of dissapointment or discouragement about the condition of my love life and a subsequential also stroke of reaction to do something about it even if i get realy ridiculous. Right now i feel like Love is worth it
( tomorrow i will maybe regret what i am doing now :o) - (ok, it has been a few years this page is here, i recently made some minor modifications, and still i havent regret it yet, actualy has bought me a couple of Good Friends, one of them living even near me, so being silly pays off? )

So the reason this specific page is here is i guess my ( lifelong we can say ) quest for a permanent mate, a succesful match. ( Yeap some think i am intelligent still i cant help it being stupidly sapy :P ) Which for reasons that have to do both with some of my personality traits and practical issues of my life i havent find her yet in my real world. Some of those issues are my shyness and not THAT outgoing personality (meaning not having fun mixing with whatever people or being into the bar / club scene). Also i am not sure how exactly this has happened but my social circle is quite restricted nowadays, my work and lifestyle, age and lifestyle transformations in the lives of my good friends as well, i can tell have to do with that. I've been hurt and i've hurt ( without itending too and horribly sorry about it ) in my short life span only to realize how we all are only humans with the same needs and amount of imperfections or dysfunctions.

Some details about me that might help shape a clearer picture of the stranger i propably appear to be here : What counts for me the most in my life is Love, Wisdom, Communication, Knowledge, Peace. I am not career oriented nor professionaly ambitious although i happen to be professionaly specialised ( Graphic Designer ). I have a secret and permanent wish and dream to one day meet God and Truth and see every human being live an eternal life. Basicaly find eternal peace while existing. I am not religious but i believe in God. Cuddlesick, affection sucker, not much self confident, not much mature and try constantly to reach perfection in honesty. My social time i prefer it to be around diners lunches coffeshops and cozy bars, everywhere and everything where i can communicate with my people. Also ofcourse i love movies and i have a very special relation with music. Dreaming of becoming so mature inside one day to be able to create my own family to be wanting and feeling fatherhood and lead with my beloved spouse a peaceful balanced healthy family.

If you are interested u can ask me for a descriptive list of my cons and pros acording to my personal perception ofcource although i will do my best to be as much objective as i know to be. ( thats kind of relative isnt ? despite some common percentage theres great variation out there as to what is perceived as advantage or disadvantage and in what degree )

I maybe appear already to be picky so one may ask ofcourse what am i looking for ? To be honest although i am still searching what is that can make a relationship be a lifelong one i think i can tell what the core of things i consider essential for me consists of : Inteligence, ability to philosophize and conversate, Tenderness and cuddlynes at a realy sick degree :o), Care , Compassion, Patience, Politeness, Calmness, Gentleness, Maturity, Understanding, Depth, A healthy and spiritual hierarchy of values morals and principals, Honesty, Support.

Having a High Level of Communication, Coidentity, and Attraction with someone i guess is what more or less would be making that person ideal . (maybe i have to clearify that high level IS NOT perfection, i want to believe that i am very well aware of the relation of the concept of perfection with reality and even from the point of view of my absolutely great distance from perfection i could only love someone ... imperefect :o) It should be obvious that this person would be normal, balanced and healthy inside. I'd never (not yet at least) deny that for me physical attraction does play a driving role for a potential crush, but this thing has its own unexplainable yet mechanisms that keep me unable to define any certain physical characteristics that i prefer or not, for me is an eye / touch chemistry that either is happening or is not concerning either a handicap person or a model.

I have the suspicion that all the above are what all people would normaly want inside ( so am i maybe not so picky after all ? ... ) Sometimes maybe the simplest free thing is taken for granted by some people while some others realy cant find it ( health for example ... ) but i am not sure yet if this fact applies in Love also ... time will teach me i guess

Thank you for your patience reading down to this line. Have a nice day and wish you all the best ( health, love, wisdom )

note:
I will try to include here more specific details about me soon (music preferences for example. ( I guess you know by now Van Morrison is one of them : )